This is an easy to follow guide on how to live in the present moment.
Fair too often we are caught up in the busy schedule of life and wonder where did the day go?, or hasn’t that week flown by, or the summer will be soon over. This happens because you’re so busy in life just doing that you forget how to be.
At some point or the other, all of us have inevitably found ourselves wanting to just leave it all and go far away from all the rush, from all the noise and just be in peace with our own self.
There is too much rushing, too much achieving in this overly fast paced world. If you find yourself in such a position then it is actually reminding you that you need to slow things down and go slow with life. Step outside the rush.
Learning how to slow down in life is a challenge by itself, especially for those who seem to work non-stop, or those who feel guilty for taking a break as they think I could be doing this, or doing that.
But living in the fast lane comes at a price, that price is you’re missing out on your life.
The time you spending planning, working, doing, rushing and all the other things that lead to hectic life, takes away living in the moment and experiencing what it truly feels like to be alive.
This is so profound, yet what is it to be alive? Although I cannot concretely answer that question for you, through my personal experience I have found that people feel the most alive when they are truly experiencing the present moment.
Those times when you are able to slow down and pay attention.
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What is stopping you from living in the present moment?
Your mindset may hold certain beliefs that keep you stuck in the fast lane. These could come from personal experience, habits, things you’ve learned growing up or the pressure of society.
Take a step back and a moment to reflect on your mindset and your beliefs on why you shouldn’t be slowing down from a fast-paced life.
What do these beliefs mean to you?
Here are some examples of beliefs you may have about slowing down:
- If I take a break or slow down, I’m lazy
- Things won’t get done.
- I could be doing something else in the time I’m taking a break
- I need to be doing more to be more successful than Joe Bloggs next door, and the only way I can do that is by working harder- even if it stresses me out.
The ironic thing is that you will actually be more productive and efficient if you take breaks and pay attention to what you are doing in the moment.
This is because living in the present moment increases your focus.
When you work yourself into the ground without no break, and constantly move from task to task, you are not fully living in the present moment and therefore are not fully engaged. As a result, you are living your life in auto-pilot mode.
This can result in two things happening:
- You are not fully focused; therefore, you’re not putting the best work into things. This is because you are just thinking about moving onto the next task.
- You are burning yourself out by never taking breaks or slowing down.
Benefits of living in the moment
The importance of living in the moment is enormous. People who live in present moment stay physically and mentally healthy.
It will payback you in the different ways:
- More awareness about thoughts and feelings
- Improved and satisfying relationships – you are more connected to others
- Reduced stress, fear, worry and anxiety resulting better mental well-being
- Enhanced gratefulness and enjoyment in life
- Have high self-esteem
- Noticing the unnoticed
- Better decision making as you are more aware about the options
- Feel more conscious, peaceful, focused and alive
- Better control over your mind, emotions and body
- Increased concentration and productivity
- More skilled management and balancing of energy
When you concentrate your attention on the present moment, you focus on the task at hand. You give your full attention to what you are doing right now and you let go of outcomes.
You will have more meaningful, valued and qualitative moments in life.
How can you live in the present moment?
While you’re rushing about from task to task, somebody else is living in the present moment and time is moving much slower for them.
It is the same number of seconds ticking by, the same minutes and hours pass by, but it is your perception of those moments that is different.
Your perception is your reality, therefore if you find that you seem to be rushing through life then the answer lies in changing your perception.
Some of that may originate in identifying and changing your anxious thoughts.
Additionally, you can practice Mindfulness by being aware of your senses (touch, sight, hearing, taste, and smell) in the present moment. This is one of the most effective ways to truly bring you into experiencing this moment fully.
Try it now and pay attention to what is around you – notice how you feel.
Below are some ideas of how you can stay in present moment.
Practice Mindfulness to live in the moment
Practice mindfulness in your day to day life and make it inherent part of your lifestyle. You need to notice and be more aware about the self and people/things in the surrounding
Mindful nature walks
While you go for morning walk/jogging, try to notice the things which you have never observed during earlier morning walk sessions.
Look and notice the flowers, trees, clouds, birds, colours, sound of leaves, or cool blowing breeze.
Take advantage of the natural beauty around you to cultivate greater mindfulness.
Make your morning walk — mindful nature walk.
Before going in to it, let me ask you one question. How often do you sit down to eat, completely distracted?
With smartphones in your hands, perhaps you’re checking your email, WhatsApp, Twitter or Facebook. Try to make your eating time mindful.
When eating your breakfast, lunch or dinner, simply eat. No digital devices, books, magazine or newspaper, etc.
Pay more attention to what you’re eating, the sensory experiences – colour, aroma, texture, taste and smell.
We all communicate a lot in our daily life. Practice mindful speaking and listening.
Being more aware about what you speak and hear will not only help you to live in the present moment, it will also improve your communication skills and interpersonal relationships.
Listen others, be aware about your own internal thoughts and control on your words during communications.
Well this is what all I am doing right now. One of the benefits of blogging is it’s give you opportunity for mindful writing.
When I write content, I become more aware about my thoughts, values and beliefs. I have become more aware about my passion and what I like and love to do.
Writing my blog is one of the meditation practices, when past and future do not distract me.
Mindful parenting is something on which we all need to pay attention.
Parents are busier in achieving their career aspirations, success and earning money; they are not able to give mindful time to their children, rather I must say even routine time.
Mindful parenting will not only boost you living in present habit; it will also help to encourage mindfulness in your children.
Children are naturally mindful, they notice the world around them with unlimited curiosity, like – fascinated by dew on a leaf or shapes of stone they find on the roadside.
We parents are often the ones who are teaching them competition and hurrying them along.
The more you rediscover how to be a mindful parent, the more you can nurture and appreciate your children’s innate capacity to be present in each moment. It will become family mindful practice and help to live in present.
As mentioned in above example we can also imbibe in other day to day activities like – mindful showering, mindful driving, mindful working at workplace, mindful exercising, mindful swimming, mindful breathing, mindful playing and so on.
Whatever you do, be more aware about your sensual experiences, body sensations, emotions, hormonal triggers, situational experiences, surrounding people and things.
When you enable yourself to observe and feel all this, you have started living in present moment.
One of the best techniques to keep you in the present moment is meditation.
Meditation techniques like controlled breathing, relaxation, pointed concentration, body awareness and thoughts monitoring etc. revolve around paying attention.
Paying attention on something distracts you from past/future and brings you in the present moment.
I have made meditation a part of my mindful morning rituals. I personally have got benefited from it tremendously. So, adopt meditation technique which suits you and make it a part of your routine life.
The more you will practice, the more you live in present.
Focus on the Process
For many people, the biggest obstacle to living in the present is that we feel the need to plan for possible problems.
This is especially true of people who tend to be anxious.
Prying your attention from your worries feels a bit like taking your eyes off the road when you’re driving.
To overcome this resistance, focus on the process rather than the end result.
Living in the present doesn’t mean you give up on the idea of progress but rather understanding that progress can only happen if you act on the present.
So, for example, you can be engaged in writing down some recovery goals and some steps to get there.
You’re planning for the future, but you’re actively engaged in that particular activity.
Use a grounding technique
A grounding technique is when you deliberately notice sensations in order to ground yourself in the present.
You can do this as part of mindfulness meditation or just any time during the day when you find yourself preoccupied with worries or otherwise unable to concentrate.
A common grounding technique is the 5-4-3-2-1 technique. You notice five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste.
This engages all of your senses and the mild complexity of the task keeps you cognitively engaged.
However, you don’t have to go through this whole exercise to ground yourself. You can engage with any sensation. For example, you might notice the sensations in just your feet or you might notice the sensations of your breathing.
Write things down
One reason we often don’t live in the present is that we have something we feel is important that we have to remember.
Maybe you have a meeting after lunch or you’re supposed to call your mom, or you have a great idea for your friend’s birthday present, and so on.
If you have to devote mental energy to remembering those things, they will take away your focus.
Instead, just write them down. If it’s an appointment, writing it down on a calendar or planner is always a good idea, but just writing a reminder on a sticky note is usually enough to get it off your mind.
Forget about the clock
Anyone who has ever had a job knows that the last 10 or 15 minutes of the workday are the longest.
When you’re busy, you forget about time and focus on what you’re doing. When you start looking at the clock, you get restless.
Time creeps by. You wish it were 20 minutes in the future and you were on your way home.
The same thing happens any time you’re too focused on the time. Part of your brain is always pulling you away from your task at hand to check the time.
Try forgetting about the clock. If you have to do something at a certain time and you’re afraid you’ll get carried away and miss it, set an alarm.
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Distractions such as a smartphone or television can make it harder for you to focus on the present moment and take you down a black hole in your mind without you even realising it.
Leave your phone in your car or put it on ‘do not disturb‘ to prevent distractions so you can be fully present and appreciate the things and people in front of you.
Give yourself reminders
Little reminders can be helpful so that you remember to slow down and pay attention.
Whether it is a phone wallpaper, a sign on your desk, or a decal on your mirror – visual reminders to slow down can get you out of your head and into the present.
Taking breaks at home, work, or school can help you stop anxious thinking or stop feeling stressed. Taking a break can help you to refocus and reflect.
Some helpful things to do on a break are taking a walk, taking deep breaths, or eating mindfully.
These are examples of breaks that bring you fully into your present moment experience, and out of the stress of overthinking and rushing.
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Enjoy the little things
Getting to enjoy life more is one of the perks of living a slow life.
First, you need to learn to notice what is happening around you. Notice the breeze, the flowers, the clouds. Notice the smell of things.
How to live in the present moment – Final thought
If you can cultivate present moment awareness, then you can learn how to slow down and appreciate life. Appreciation comes from actually paying attention to yourself, your body, your environment, and the people around you- not rushing from one thing to the next.
So, the next time you find yourself caught in a frenzy of stress, overwhelm, and frustration, ask yourself:
How can I choose to slow down and live in the present moment today?
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